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Ruly Ruth: Living with a Neat-Obsessed Spouse

My darling husband of 12.5 years, the father of my two precious children, the King of our castle, is also the one who demands we live in a neat home. He literally cannot function with any level of clutter around–it makes him crazy! (I have 

Ruly Mix: Andrew Huang

Itā€™s the day after the most romantic day of the year and I thought we could all use a little reminder to cherish our loved ones every day of the year.Ā  This monthā€™s Ruly Mix artist, Andrew Huang, has provided a great song inspired by 

Foam Valentine Bears

With a houseful of girls, Valentine’s Day is a big deal at our house.Ā  It is the most frilly, girly holiday there is.Ā  Making crafts with hearts, lace, glue, glitter and markers is right up our alley.Ā Ā  Last year, I took a homemade approach and shared my recycled crayon valentine project. Ā This year we went with a prepackaged approach.

We happened to be in Michaelā€™s in early January for some errand when the Valentineā€™s Day craft supplies had just arrived.Ā  My 5-year old zeroed right in on the foam sticker selection.Ā  We found some really cute make-your-own Valentine teddy bears where all the foam pieces were pre-cut and self-adhesive.Ā  They came in a pack of 12 Ā bears for about $5.

When we got home from the store, my young art enthusiast wanted to get started on them right away.Ā  She sat for an hour dutifully making all the valentines all by herself.Ā  This was a fantastic craft for this age group because it was entirely self-created.Ā  I did not need to help with anything at all.

The downside of a prepackaged craft is that it doesnā€™t allow for much creativity.Ā  Well, you might think that (as I did) but that underestimates the creative powers of children.

ā€œMom, now I am going to make a Valentineā€™s rabbit.ā€

ā€œOk, great!ā€ I said, not looking up from what I was doing but curious as to how she was going to make a rabbit out of a teddy bear shape.

ā€œLook, mom!Ā  Itā€™s done!ā€

She proudly showed me her work, in which she discovered that if you turned the teddy bear shape upside down and used the bearā€™s legs as ā€œearsā€ it did make a convincing rabbit shape!Ā  It was a moment that would make Martha Stewart proud.

We found some Dove heart-shaped chocolates that were the perfect fit for the heart on the bears (and rabbits) and taped them on.Ā  She wrote her name in Sharpie on the animalsā€™ arms and added some small drawings too for a personalized touch.

After weeks of asking when Valentineā€™s Day would ever come, she took great pride in delivering the valentines she made herself to her preschool class this morning.

Yesterday, Michaelā€™s offered a free Valentine making session for children that we attended and had great fun using punches, glitter glue and markers to create unique valentine art.Ā  We also wanted to take advantage of Michaelā€™s 60% off foam valentine craft kits to stock up for next year.Ā  Sadly, the store was almost completely denuded of anything valentine-related.Ā  All the valentine shelves were bare. Ā There was hardly a heart-shaped anything to be found. An elementary school teacher was lamenting what craft she would do with her class the next day and the Michaelā€™s staff was helping her come up with alternatives.

So, if you love Valentineā€™s Day like we do, next year, put it on your calendar to check out Michaelā€™s Valentine’s Day supplies in mid-January!Ā Ā Ā  Also, if you intend to do any crafting for St. Patrickā€™s Day (March 17) or Easter (April 24), you might be interested to know that Michaelā€™s has its stock in now for these holidays!

Happy Valentineā€™s Day to all my readers!Ā  Wishing you lots of love and happiness throughout the year!

OCD Profile: Jared Douglas Kant

Today we discuss one more personal story of OCD. Like Sammy in the previous profile, Jared Douglas Kant first experienced debilitating OCD symptoms as a young pre-teen. Also, like Sammy, Jared was a bright kid with lots of creative ideas. Where Sammy was strong in 

OCD Profile: Sammy

This month we are looking at an organizing extreme, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), both to better understand our own organizing motivations and the motivations of OCD-affected individuals, which ultimately impact all of us. While the pre-teen and teenage years are challenging for most people, they are